So a woman I met recently agreed to go out this weekend.. She mentioned she had to work early in the day and just wanted to hang out at her place. Just wanted everybody’s thoughts on going over somebody else’s house for the 1st date. Before anyone asks she mentioned that i will not be staying the night. I’m assuming that’s her way of setting a boundary.
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It sounds like a simple sleep boundary, not that you won’t be using the bed. That’s a perfect first date, and more casual for both of you.
I’m not sure what her intentions are if it’s for casual then it’s okay. If it’s for a date, I’d have to ask why her place? It’s just a huge step for a first date, I’d be anxious in your position because it’s a stranger’s home.
I don’t think I would not like at first but that’s me.