I feel the constant need to be the favorite friend and be the “leader” of the group and the one everyone loves but I get overwhelmed and feel like I will disappoint them when I am the centre. Please help me

3 comments

1. Can you give some examples? Like, is it always on you to plan activities?

2. What have you accomplished in life?

   Not sure why downvoted, it’s an honest question relevant to Op’s question.

3. One of the better things that you can do, is learn to pick your moments. Nobody is fun all the time, funny all the time, the center of attention all the time, etc. Trying too hard to do that can also get old for people. Stepping up really well 20% of the time, is more memorable in a good way, than people that try to do too much, for too long.