We have been dating for around a year and we have a good sex life we try out new stuff and like each other
Recently while having sex with my boyfriend I liked the idea of having sex in front of a stranger but I don’t know how to say it to my boyfriend?
This thought turns me on a lot if someone watches us while we are doing it. I have tried to do some stuff with my boyfriend in front of a stranger guy we partied with in our hotel room when we were travelling but it wasn’t anything serious
How do I say this to my boyfriend about this idea which turns me on
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Being watched and watching are both fun! Id say just be honest and open with him. See how he reacts to the idea.
Suggest trying webcam shows. Couples can make pretty good money.
I take a lot of trips for work banquets that my wife can go on too. I like to request a high room in the hotel(usually like 15 stories) and then press her up against the window while we have sex or just have sex in front of the window. I like the thought that someone down there might be watching my sexy wife and me do it.
Well you could just straight up ask him, you could also watch porn with him where they are doing it in front of others and then steer the conversation towards trying that
Propose him to go to a swingers club
You could bring it up in fantasy. Gauge response. You might even find someone that’s ok with only looking.
Well first and foremost he has to be onboard, good communication is essential to good sex. What if he hates the idea? What if he’s self conscious?
Maybe start light, but stay legal. Not sure where you live, but you can start with nude and sex friendly beaches, and or book cottages which are close to others on lakes and beaches which have large open balconies where there’s a view.
Another thing to do is go to collage parties and and find a place where there’s a view but is somewhat private.