We get along great and he is truly an amazing guy, personality wise. I (F) just realized that the physical connection is not there for me and it’s hard to get past that. We’ve been seeing each other for six months but I can’t keep lying to myself and trying to see past his looks.
I shouldn’t of let it go in for so long but I thought I would be able to get past it when I ignored that I wasn’t attracted to him in the beginning. I’m not sure how to end it with him since all we’ve had is good times together and it would totally blindside him that I don’t want to see him anymore.
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You can either tell him the truth or just tell him that you’re having issues with the relationship that he can’t do anything to fix.
You don’t have to be mean. Tell him that you don’t feel that the two of you are compatible, and you don’t feel attracted to him in a romantic way.
Just be honest, you’re not feeling it and something is missing, & whilst you’ve enjoyed his time, you’ve been thinking about it, & there’s a connection lacking that you can’t get past
Honesty truly is the best policy