Have anyone here tried 3some.. if yes how was it and how did you and ur partner handle it ?

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1. I always recommend letting your partner pick the girl and i recommend that from bad experiences when i picked the other girl. Just have fun and dont try to think things through just do it when the opportunity presents itself

2. It is something that you guys have to discuss thoroughly before going in. I was married for five years before my husband started to convince me to agree to a threesome. It has been awesome and we have been doing this for five years already.

3. I’ve been part of both types MMF and FFM. Very mixed thoughts

   The FFM sessions (only 2) for me sucked. I’m on the spectrum of bi, but mostly straight, same with the other girl and it was arousing seeing each other, but we expected more from the guy.

   The issue is that most men can’t last long enough for two woman, and basically he came very quickly when he started penetrating the other girl, and he couldn’t get it up after and basically we didn’t cum. I’ve heard it’s the same for many FFM’s. It was the same both times (with different men)

   The MMF sessions was nicer. But one session ruined my relationship and resulted in me getting dumped. My bf at the time suggested it and I found a guy, and admittedly he was more attracted than my bf, and had a sexier body and larger penis. Additionally during the MMF he was also extremely good, and I had cum many times with him and squirted for him ( I hadn’t done it with my bf ever). My bf felt very jealous and envious about it and it it slowly built into him not being able to get hard during sex, and to a breakup.

4. I’ve had a few. First one sucked, we were all drunk, and my partner at the time pretended to faint because of a sudden surge of jealousy. But I learned from that and I’ve had many more since then and they were good, some were better than others. I recommend communication before hand, that way ground rules can be set and nobody gets hurt. Insist on using protection and only do what you’re comfortable with. Honestly the biggest hurdles for most people are jealousy and their/your own expectations.

5. I’ve had threesomes with two different couples (m&f) and I was the other girl joining. They were definitely a lot of fun but I think they went really well because the girls wanted me to join them and they chose me and not the guy. I was also very respectful to them and I mostly paid attention to their girlfriends to avoid any jealousy ( the guys liked watching so it was fine). Couple of advices: if you’re going to ask a girl to join you let your girlfriend choose, don’t go through with it if you’re not prepared to have a threesome with another guy for you gf. Mostly have a lot of conversations about threesomes and what could bother both of you and set boundaries about what each of you feels comfortable with. If your gf agrees to ask another girl to join you let her arrange it to make sure she feels comfortable ( in my experience guys don’t really care how/where it’s going to happen that’s why). They can be a lot of fun as long as the couple have discussed their boundaries and they find someone who is going to be respectful to them and not someone who agreed to have a threesome bc they wanted to sleep with only one of you guys. Make sure you don’t pressure each other into doing it just because you have already said yes, both of you could change your mind at any point and you should make sure that you both are fine with it. It could take a long time for both of you to agree and to find someone suitable for it. Overall communication is extremely important. Good luck!

6. here’s the thing, threesomes only really work if both people don’t have any serious hang-ups, out of control insecurities, or major jealousy issues. with all the limits and rules and boundaries that have to be discussed, if it’s too much for someone, then they probably shouldn’t try to go there.

   I hear a lot of horror stories where a couple invites a third into their bedroom and somebody finds out that they really did not like it. and it winds up destroying their relationship. so it’s best to engage in it only if you’re both sure this is something you want.

   my girlfriend and I have had a few FFM threesomes where she’s picked the girl and it’s gone well. it honestly helped a lot that both girls are bi and into playing with each other, so it wasn’t like constantly me with both of them.

   communication is key. talk a lot with her about both of your concerns, what you want out of it, what you don’t want to happen.

7. Well, this never happened organically for me so I hired an escort during a time I was single. FFM. They were bi and friends. We had a great time and no drama.

8. I did with my Girlfriend…she handle it very well.
   She likes to have her boyfriend to fell protect .
   Filling secure give her the freedom to take steps in exploring her sessuality

9. If you’re feeling like that don’t do it. If you aren’t enthusiastically in to seeing her get pleasured by someone else, you should not be doing this.

   I’ve had a few FFM, mostly it’s been them playing together and I’m more of an accessory.