I’ve not been with my girlfriend too long, about 2 months and everything’s going well but she sends selfies on Snapchat to other guys quite regularly.
One of them is a guy she works with who she told me at the beginning she used to see but things ended amicably between them and they’re still friends.
There’s this other guy who’s name I see on her phone pop up sometimes but I’ve never acknowledged it because I wanted to play it cool.
It really bothers me because they’re both a lot more gym body than I am, and I’m not quite sure whether to bring it up.
She tells me she loves me all the time and has pictures of me all over her Instagram and stuff but it still bothers me that she’s sending these selfies out.
Do I mention it or am I just being insecure?
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Dude sending snaps is the primary way to chat on Snapchat. They are almost always selfies.
In this situation I would say your being insecure, try to get some help with your self esteem. Remember 99 percent of problems are in your head due to things like anxiety and insecurities
It’s been 2 months, don’t take the relationship that seriously.
Does she have gfs that also get the same treatment on snapchat?
It’s insecurities my friend. I hope you can ease them I know it’s hard. Funnily enough I’m insecure about the fiancee I cheated on cheating on me. Life is funny like that.
I’m not an insecure person in the slightest, I literally have an open relationship.
But why on earth would you send a selfie to someone you have no sexual relationship with?
I guess I’m just old and shit and out of touch with the younger generation.
Honest question here, grown ups snapchat?
I would be angry. To me it’s the same as Whatsapping or dm’ing your selfie to someone 🤷♂️
I like to think I’m not very insecure but that is just weird and I would confront my partner about it.