So, to make it quick, me (18m) and my girlfriend (18f) fought a bit yesterday over a touchy subject in our relationship. We mostly argued and things got heated. We kind of sorted it out in the end, but she chose to sleep in my bed and I took the couch for that night which I didn’t mind. She then proceeded to come see me on the couch and told me that she gets super turned on when we have disputes/when we fight over things. We then had some of the best sex we’ve ever had in the last month. I’m mostly here to ask if this has ever happened to any girls/guys and why so ?
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It’s not uncommon, but tread carefully . Some people just respond to heightened emotions .
Worst case scenario she starts craving drama to keep the excitement. A friend of mines ex was like that, it got out of hand from what he told me, started as petty squabbles but it escalated to constant fights and her pushing boundaries. I swear they’d start fights just to keep it interesting . Ended when she cheated on him and tried to have make up sex after the confession .
My wife loves makeup sex!
I hate having to be mad to get sex!
Nowadays we have a bit of a freeuse dynamic where intimacy is neither benefited nor hampered by our fights.
Sometimes it’s easier said than done!
My girlfriend loves when I get an attitude or I’m grumpy. She likes to lick/fuck the attitude out of me.
I will have to agree with some of the previous comments. Not that uncommon, it happens. My husband and I have makeup sex, we just don’t happen to fight that much.