Hi people, so I just cured my phimosis almost entirely the other day. I was able to retract while fully erect and masturbate until I finished, gliding my foreskin over and under the glans. Even though the motion is not yet as seamless like I would prefer it to be, it’s certainly enough to consider my phimosis gone for good.
One problem I have though is that my foreskin, when retracted completely over the head while erect, rests/bunches up immediately below the glands. And I am unable to pull it down further than 2mm away from it. Do I have frenulum breve? Or can penises look like this too? Is the ability of pulling the foreskin down almost to the base of the penis a must? Or are there cases and cases? I know each penis is different so that’s why I’m asking.
Another question I’d like to ask is will I be able to have sex— with my penis erect, foreskin retracted, a condom and lots of lube? Considering that the retracting motion isn’t 100% seamless and the foreskin doesn’t go lower than immediately below the head. Can the frenulum tear if I use a condom and lots of lubrication?
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Considering your foreskin is just getting used to this be patient. It will stretch and settle as you use your dick more. I have had a similar experience but I also had a few sex accidents so that stretched me even more
That is your ridged band. A natural penis should have the glans/head, a small ridge area, and then some bunched up skin before getting to the shaft. Some guys with longer or tight foreskins have theirs a little bit more visible. There are some nerve endings in there so you are feeling her and it sort of makes it look a little wider. All around pluses there. No one should pull it down to the base.
If you tell her that you recently recovered from a tight foreskin and it’s a little raw, she can be more gentle but you still having fun. Have water based lube and condoms around. It may take some time to figure out what works but eventually you will find it. Some feel too little with the foreskin up and some feel too much with it back. There is also changing brands for a better fit. You also have to go a bit slower which is not a problem. Women don’t want a concussion against the head board.
You’re not limited. It’s still a little tight as you describe but it is pretty normal. It will loosen up with oral, hand stuff, and penetration.