I am a woman (F25) and I am seeing this guy(M30) around from time to time because we come in the same circle, to the same events sometimes. When we meet we greet, hug, small talk and that’s it and we have met out two times where we dance together me, him and 1-2 of mutual friends. I actually really start feeling attracted to him. But I get no indication to if he likes me or not. He has seen me when I was with my ex though, so maybe that’s part of the reason. Met him out, and just wrote him a message on facebook (we are friends but never write), just wrote it was good to see him last night and small inside joke. I am feeling like a teenager so nervous if and what he is gonna reply and I literally did nothing and gave no indication I even like him.😅 I normally never approach guys unless there is a clear indication they are interested in me that way. So I was just thinking if you got a message like that would you think of that as an indication that someone liked you? We were already facebook friends but never interacted online before.
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This is like the safest opener ever. It doesn’t communicate direct interest, so even if he doesn’t choose to move things forward from there, no harm done. Shoot your shot (sort of).
I would assume there is potential to explore interest, not assume they liked me. So I would proceed in a way where I would try to get on the same page if I had interest, not like immediately ask them on another date.