I’ve been out of the dating market for about 2 years now after my ex dumped me randomly while I was in love with her kinda left me looking stupid for a bit. I’ve attempted to hook up with some girls for casual sex but they wanted a “relationship” or wanted to string me along for a period of time who knows, anyways I wasn’t going for it. So I’ve been cold approaching on dating apps and IG, left on seen, seen, seen, seen I said fuck that. I decided to try it in person since I never done it before, I got rejected so much that at this point if I didn’t get rejected I didn’t know what to do. So today I walked up on her and just asked her out on a date, she gives me her number and literally my hands are shaking I tried to hide it cause I was nervous I think she saw it or not who knows. Now I got her number now what?
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Anything interesting happening in your area? Invite her to accompany you, make it a combination date / exploring something interesting.
Else, some texting to get to know each other and push for a quick coffee meetup to see if there’s any ‘chemistry’. If there is, then you’ve incentive to do lots of texting to check each other out before a formal date.
anxiety=negative assessment of energy of anticipation. Breathe and turn it into enthusiasm. Then talk to her like you talk to your friends and have fun