And no one has a good time in dating except for 10s.

What do you think is the way out of this? How do you have hope in this landscape? What is the best practice for an individual?

9 comments
  1. I have a great time in dating when I’m trying and I sure don’t consider myself a 10

  2. I don’t think women are “hypergamous” – and that’s a weird generalization.

    No one has a good time in dating? That’s another weird generalization. I would say 90% of my dating is a good time, and the other 10% is someone rejecting me or me rejecting someone else.

    If I were you I’d dig to the root of your generalizations and instead of trying to solve these perceived problems on a macro scale, focus on solving your own problems.

  3. Zoom in, not out. Overall trends in dating aren’t necessarily relevant to your life. IRL you’re lucky to manage to connect closely with a few people in your life.

  4. I disagree it’s easy to enjoy dating so long as you’re confident and trustworthy.

    Even 10’s have to deal with assholes bro.. 10’s have an easier time getting in the door but that doesn’t mean everyone coming to the door is worthwhile

  5. I’ve had fun during dating,and I would say that most people I know irl have as well. I know many people who are not conventionally attractive and have already met their life partners by now. I also know many 10s who’ve had shitty luck with dating. I think this is a really cynical take.

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