Before you read, I’ve known him for a month and we have hung out almost every other day. And I fell in LOVE quick. But Reddit has convinced me he is using me and taking advantage of me.
So I’m gonna send him a text message because he’s most likely sleeping because he works 3rd shift. Basically my text is letting him know I like like him but we need to stop doing spending excessive time with each other and doing couple stuff because I don’t know where our relationship stands- especially because he brings up threesomes. And I honestly just can’t. But yeah.
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*His Name*, don’t hate me for saying this…but I lowkey think we might have to hangout a bit less because I’m definitely falling for you, like really hard, and I don’t know if you’re like ready for a relationship? We never talk about it either and that’s fine if you’re not ready. I think about it a lot and I know you have alot going on as well. I really reallyyy do like you a lot, maybe a bit too much lol, and this isn’t a shady or curving you type of message. But I’m just letting you know how I feel…so. Don’t take 800000 years responding to this sir!
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Hey, *His Name*, I know this is kind out of the blue but I just wanted to let it be known. I think we gotta spend less time together Outside of the bedroom because I am pretty sure I’m catching more than just feelings. I don’t wanna drag you down with me because I know you’re still exploring your sexual energy and I think you should do that because you’re young and you should try things you really wanna do! But yeah I’m not cutting you off, I’m not making excuses, I’m just letting it be known about how I feel.
If the paragraphs are bad please just give me advice on how to better it please. My heart hurts, thanks.
2 comments
They’re both horrible and show that you’re giving him a lot more thought and effort than he is giving you.
He’s not giving you much communication. Stop giving it back.
Instead of texting him a paragraph, here is an example:
Him: hey bb, cum here
You: Sorry, *generic excuse*
Neither!!
Instead of spending less time together, you need to lean in and have a defining the relationship conversation. You need to say “I like you and want to see if we can have a future together.” And if he’s not interested in a serious relationship, you should tell him to take a hike.
Don’t degrade yourself. Demand that you get the attention you deserve and if he can’t fulfill your needs, he needs to take a hike so you can find someone better.