So my (F33) Husband (M34) and I took the big step after a lot of debating, looking and preparing of having our first MMF threesome. I had always wanted to try it, and my husband is heteroflexible. He always said he would seriously consider it, but he wanted to make it an “equal threesome” where everyone in the room was attracted to each other. For years, we occasionally looked but could never find a suitable man until a couple months ago when we met and became friends with an unattached Bi guy who was happy to be our third. I liked him right away, and my husband quickly warmed up to him and said he could see himself doing stuff with him.
Fast forward to last Friday, when we all got together at our place and got to it. I wasn’t sure just how much sexual contact there would be between my friend and my husband. Hubby guessed not much since he had never actually had sex with another man before and was kind of nervous about it. And for a while, there was next to no contact. I just enjoyed being the center of two wonderful men’s attention for a good long while. One of the rules we had was that the friend had to wear a condom when he was penetrating me. Towards the end, after hubby fucked and came in me, friend put on a condom and started fucking me while hubby just lied next to me, kissing me and playing with my tits. Hubby then told friend to pull out when he was getting close. As soon as friend pulled out, hubby grabbed his cock, pulled off the condom, and got real close to finish him off into his mouth. After friend came in his mouth, hubby came back over to me and snowballed his cum into my mouth for me to swallow.
That. Was. So. Fucking. HOT!!!
Now I can’t get it out of my head. I now get turned on at the thought of my husband doing anything sexual with another man, and would very much like for us to do it again. Problem is, he is ambivalent about it at best. He says he doesn’t regret it, but he doesn’t feel the need to do it again either. He said that while the thought of it was hot, actually going through with it was ‘meh’. This creates an issue for me. On the one hand, I’m certainly not going to insist he do anything he doesn’t want to do, nor do I hold his wishes against him. But at the same time, seeing him do that is such a turn on for me that I can’t stop thinking about it, and it gets me off faster than thinking about anything else. Is this something he may come around to later, or should I just be grateful it happened once and make peace with the fact that it will never happen again?
TL;DR – My husband and I had a MMF threesome wherein he performed a gay sex act with the other man right in front of me. I think it is the hottest thing ever and want to keep exploring it, but hubby is not so thrilled. Come back to it later, or forget it?
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I would give it a little while just to make sure that he’s had enough time to process things as well. And then eventually broach the topic again in gauge how he feels about repeating it.
Wow this actually happened to me!! I have a few stories about it as well lol You’re husband could come around to it again, I wouldn’t lose hope. You should definitely be grateful that it happened but like you have a similar craving that I haven’t been able to get because of my gf and let’s just say it sucks!! Lol the thought, like you, helps get me off too
Did you tell him how hot it was when he kissed you with a mouth full of cum? Have you thought about how hot it might be to blow him and then kiss him when you have a mouth full of his cum? Maybe that would be more to his liking. And you don’t have all the complications scheduling with a third person. Just you and him.
I wonder if he really thinks it was meh or if he’s just holding the line to protect his self-image. It’s hard in a culture that looks down so much on gay men to own bisexuality as a man. I’d give it some time, maybe some gentle encouragement and see where it goes in a few months.