When I’m talking 1 on 1 with someone I feel relaxed and at ease but when there’s a group, I feel like there’s way too much to take in and my mind isn’t quick enough to keep up with the conversation dynamic so I just clench up and stay silent.
Also I feel like I automatically become the outsider of the group when I see the others mingling w/ each other and having a good time. This happens to me in every group setting. I dont understand why, but my default is just to observe like I’m on the outside looking in.
What should I do to be more natural socializing in groups?
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I feel the exact same way I love 1 on 1 conversations but the second a third or even fourth person joins I’m at a complete loss especially joining mid Convo seems almost impossible for me I just feel like I’m just awkwardly standing there listening in but I feel it’s much easier once you’re friends with both parties of course I’m no expert considering I’m right here with you but what do you say to dm to share our experience we may be able to come up with something if we put our heads together best of luck we’re all in this together