What would be a huge dealbreaker

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1. Problematic, nosey relatives. Big no no. Bye.

2. A toxic and physical one. Like Amber Heard and Johnny Depp

3. Nonexistent libido

4. Abuse – physical, emotional or psychological.

5. Mismatch on major life decisions like wanting kids/not wanting kids.

6. Lack of intimacy

   Betrayal

7. Toxic parents/immediate family members. Gotta consider who I’d have to deal with regularly, how they would impact our lives and would they be people I wanted my future kids to be around.

8. She lets herself go

9. Besides infidelity? How about cruelty, lack of empathy, narcissism, addiction of all kinds, laziness, slobbishness, lying, excessive gaming, screen addiction, poor hygiene, wild spending, indifference, dishonesty, intimacy refusals and plain old immaturity.

10. Wanting/not wanting kids

11. Selfishness.

    Moodiness.

    Yelling.

    Superficiality/Exhibitionism/Ostentatiousness

    Criticism, especially to others about me.

12. Cruelty, abuse, opposite stances on important decisions (like kids), opposite stances on things important to the couple (like politics, for some people), lying about something important (like finding out your partner had never been attracted to you), financial infidelity, big libido mismatch, sexual incompatibility etc. it depends on the couple really.

13. Disrespectful of my family and me especially in front of others

14. Infidelity.