I’m a 21 female med student, and throughout my
dating life i’ve noticed that all guys i’ve dated who are
med students as well never want to commit to be in a
relationship with me even if we would date for up to 7
months, they never make it official with me.
The only real relationships i’ve been in were with guys who are not med students.
Some of the guys i’ve dated have real girlfriends at this moment, and this makes me feel like i’m not good enough or i’m not worth a real relationship.
I’m currently talking to a guy who’s a year older than me,
he told me that he had girlfriends in past and we’ve been talking for two months (although it’s exam season) but he has yet to ask me to be his girlfriend.
What do you guys think? Am i doing something wrong? And what do you think i should do to change this ?
Do you think that there are things that the other girls that got to be their girlfriends are doing that i’m not ?
PS: i’ve never had any kind of sexual intercourse with these guys cause i value sex so much and i can’t have it with anyone
tl;dr : all the guys i’ve dated who are med students like me never want to commit or be in a real relationship they only want to keep it casual which is not my thing cause it means they can ghost me whenever they feel like it.
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Do you date anyone who’s not a medical student?
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Which country are you in if you don’t mind?
The sort of guy you’re interested in doesn’t want to date you because he doesn’t have to in order to get what he wants. I don’t say this in a mean way, but the sort of guy you’re looking at is probably a good looking high achieving medical student without a lot of free time. He’s looking for something casual that fits into is schedule and knows that once he finishes med school he’ll have a lot more options if he wants someone to settle down with. You‘be been willing to do that without the commitment, so while you have no problems finding a guy, you’re getting the ones that don’t want to commit.