My girlfriend expects and wishes me to know what she wants without her telling me. I want to ask how I can solve this issue between us and I feel it is something that bothers her, but I sadly can’t always magically know what she wants, because she has to communicate it to me. When it comes to simple stuff like for example food and so on, I know exactly what she wants. But I Cant always know what she wants
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This is how women operate.
Just try with dudes if you can’t handle
>but I sadly can’t always magically know what she wants
Don’t say this to her.
Pay attention, to what is happening, the environment, how she handles things, her moods, etc it doesn’t take magic, just paying attention and knowing your partner. When that doesn’t work open communication. Communicate how you are feeling, be clear about what you need from her and what would help you out.
It’s impossible to read someone’s mind. Obviously pay attention to things but being expected to constantly anticipate someone’s needs is unrealistic and unfair from her.
It’s not your job to magically know what she wants.
If I don’t tell my boyfriend what I want, how is he supposed to know? I’m an adult. I can talk. I can tell him.
But, if she tells you, pay attention.
It’s not your job to guess what she wants.
She needs to tell you.
I can’t expect my boyfriend to just know what I want.