No female friends

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1. If im understanding this right… If you are only categorizing woman as either “sex worthy or not” then its best that you dont have any female friends at all if you dont consider them as friends to begin with… The fuck?

2. “I categorize women as sex worthy or not and I feel like I’m objectifying women as sex objects?”

   That’s literally what you’re doing.

3. Men and women cannot be friends. Soon enough you’ll realise this. Men only make friends with girls they find attractive but are too afraid to ask out. Men and women can be good coworkers, business partners and acquaintances but they cannot be close friends unless the guy likes the girl but is not coming clean about it (or if the guy is gay)

4. Ur not on ur own, I have autism which disrupts my communication and social skills thats why i don’t have a social life. I have tried to make good connections or relations with girls but it has all failed and i have none. I used to have these love/sex and friend worthy thoughts for girls, that’s why i was so desperate for a female friend or a girlfriend, online and irl. its normal not to have female friends, it doesn’t really make any benefits.

5. Don’t be too hard on yourself man. A lot of sexualizing females comes from the media, it’s everywhere, porn doesn’t help much either. Do this experiment, try to not sexualize or flirt with any woman. Just treat them as a bro, family member or just friend you would not see with “those eyes”. As you get to befriend them and know them better, you will see that men and women aren’t that different.

   Also, try to pay a lot of attention of what bother women. There are some don’t. Don’t tell them what to wear, what to do, how to act etc. It’s very patronizing, nobody likes that. Always remember to just have fun, women are on edge because men can be pretty difficult and gross with them. Making them laugh and making them have fun, that shit works all the time. Btw, having more female friends mean you will probably get to know more love interest because they will always hang out with more female friends. Being a sexual person doesn’t make you mysoginistic, women are horny too. Best of lucks

6. Stop putting girls on a pedestal. Genuinely connect with them as you would with others in real life e.g. ask how they are, their hobbies, interests, goals, opinions, etc. Listen and pay attention to what people say. Share those things about yourself when asked. People also subconsciously attach you to the value you bring. The value you bring is a clear, unique, and convincing reason why people will interact with you, let alone do so constantly. So Find ways to add value to their lives. Having In person interactions is the easiest way to stand out from countless people who text or message. People remember and favor in person interactions because of the positive vibes. If your hobbies, skills, talents align with their interests or can help them, bring it up and offer to help them. Finally, learn how to be genuinely busy in your life pursuing your goals and hobbies, while interacting with people on the side. People are hardwired to be repulsed by neediness and desperation and instead gravitate towards those who are self confident and well rounded in life. They want to see active confirmation of you actually doing something in your life other than just talking to them. So chase excellence, not people.