I’m pregnant, the baby shower is this Saturday and he has brought up that he needs to go get a gift but had yet to ask me (we don’t live together and we just found out not to long ago we’re pregnant) we planned to tell the same brother this Father’s Day. Should I put antifreeze in his coffee ? I mean, should I ask him does he plan on inviting me or going alone ? Or should I just wait, he and I both hate last minute things. Btw his brother is already married but the ceremony is in august, he’s already asked me to attend. For those of you concerned that he shouldn’t have to ask or just expected me to go with him.