Hello wonderful community.
my girl has made very clear her intentions of doing anal. Thing is I’m kind of big, and she just can’t take it obviously. And that’s totally OK; I know we have to go little by little, gentle, and with loads of lube and even more patience. Obviously I need something to introduce there which are mi fingers.
Here is the thing: I wouln’d mind having my dick involved in mud, lets say. But my fingers… I just don’t like it. Every 4 of 5 tries, I always take my finger off and it is muddy. There are sometimes that I can actually feel and push the… matter with the tip of my finger.
I am very aware of the saying “don´t complain if you play in the mud” or something like that. and again that would not be a problem, so to say, if i were using my dick, but this isn’t the case, by now…
I’ve never let her know this. As far as she can tell i go washing my hand inmmediately for higiene porpouses. I’m not planning on telling her this because that way, i’m pretty sure she won’t ever ever want to do it again, she is very shy and self-conscious.
We never get to having my dick involved because this kinds of turn me off…
Is this normal? What can I do? should I let her know?
2 comments
Gloves. Have her clean out first. Get toys that work her up to your size.
I’d recommend she clean out her rectum with an enema. You can buy prepared ones for a couple of bucks at the grocery store. I’d also suggest she continue until the water comes out clear – may take several rounds. This will certainly minimize any mess.
If you want to be extra vigilant, she can fast 8 hours or so beforehand.