A few weeks ago I started a new low dose hormone for acne. I am also a 30F virgin b/c I have been overly focused on my studies/career and I’m pretty scared of being in a relationship. I had a sexual encounter a few years ago but it was mild and awkward and really turned me off. I thought my sex drive was dead..until a few weeks ago when I saw a movie at the theater. Since then I can’t stop fantasizing about the character and the actor. All I can think about is sex and I have a male friend coming into town and I can’t stop thinking about asking him to be my first. Is this sudden switch normal?
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Y’all women trip me out. Do any men do this too? Honest question.
Yes, it’s normal. I too thought I was asexual up until the end of high school. The thought of sex completely grossed me out and I didn’t care for a boyfriend. I was a very early bloomer too so that wasn’t a part of this. Turned out after bloodwork that my female hormones were LOW as could be. Got on hormone medication and all of a sudden all I could think about was sex all the time as a virgin. It was so foreign to me. All of a sudden I wanted to lose my flowers to someone and couldn’t stop watching and reading things about sex. It was very odd. But, learned that my body just needed some help with the hormones. 🙂
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