The first time I experienced this was when I was 22 years old (male). Before that I didn’t even bother myself about it. Even the classic thought of “I’ll die a virgin” didn’t bother me – it’s not what I want at all. But once I tried it (for months with an ex gf) now I feel like I really NEED it. What is it and why do I feel the need of it and why didn’t I have this desire exactly until I tried it (I’m sure if I hadn’t experienced this I wouldn’t have had the desire)?
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Not gonna lie, this is one of the reasons I’ve avoided sex. I don’t want to start feeling a need for something I’d rather do without.
The reason it happened like that for me is because I suddenly realized that I wasn’t very satisfied from just masturbation. Prior to having good sex, the satisfaction I received from masturbation was great because that’s as good as I thought it got. Then I had good sex and realized that it was so much more satisfying.
Perhaps it’s something like that for you as well.
It’s like good food. Once you’ve tried it, you want to eat more.