Hello, I’m speaking to a woman and I told her I don’t drink. She was like that is too bad that you don’t drink. I’m an athlete, I train like crazy and prefer never go to bar. I didn’t know this is even a thing for women :\\

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  3. It’s a turnoff or a dealbreaker for some drinkers of both genders. I think that’s a sign of an unhealthy relationship with alcohol.

  5. Not a woman, but it was a green flag for my GF. Personally, I don’t drink because my soda addiction is already problematic and I don’t want to put alcohol on top of it.

    When she heared me say that she was happy because she doesn’t drink for a different reason. So we just never go to bars and go do other fun activities.

  6. This is not a deal breaker, at least for me (F in my 30s). I rarely drink, so I’m probably closer to your lifestyle vs a social drinker. Some people are more comfortable with having partners that drink socially or have a similar alcohol consumption amounts as they do, unfortunately. I don’t know if they feel like they’re judged by the ones that aren’t drinking, or if it comes off as some sort of assumed superiority complex from the non-drinker, or that someone doesn’t have as much fun if the person they’re with isn’t drinking either.

    I think it’s respectable that you have goals as an athlete to not drink. It shows you have goals and are motivated about something and disciplined. It will displease some, but i don’t think it will bother most people

  7. Nope. Been sober for over 2 years and I’ve had no problem getting matches and dates with women

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