I heard that you’re supposed to cum every time you orgasm, but I never cum when I orgasm. I only cum very rarely and it’s usually a very tiny amount, is this normal? What does this mean?

Edit – female and virgin if that makes a difference

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  2. The female orgasm is very different from a man. A mans orgasm (the bodily sensation) is accompanied by cum (a bodily fluid) at the same time. Whereas a woman’s orgasm is more just a bodily sensation that may or may not be accompanied with bodily fluid. A womans cum isn’t going to burst out as she’s orgasming like it would for a man (at least it’s not as likely). Hope that helps 🙂

  3. Do you want to cum more ?
    Or simply to understand what it takes for you to cum

  4. By cum you mean squirt? Squirting gets hyped up in some videos, but it’s not really the default. Oozing out a little wetness without the giant streams of squirting (which if it’s a ton is probably pee) is totally normal and just fine!

  5. In my experience most women do not “cum” … like they get a little more wet after getting off but it’s very very rarely a substantially larger amount. In my experience you are the norm.

  6. > I heard that you’re supposed to cum every time you orgasm

    You heard wrong then.

  7. For guys – yes, guys most likely cum almost every time they orgasm. But not for girls. Why would girls cum? It’s not like we can make people pregnant with ejaculation you know. Squirting can be a thing but it’s not something happens all the time and I believe it needs a specific skill.

  8. In my experience, only about 1 in 10 women squirt fluid when they cum, and usually not very much. My wife will not squirt unless we really rub her g spot a lot in the build up to the orgasm.

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