(F32) 3 weeks into the relationship (3 times sex time), I feel like it’s going to be the booty call only thing.
I feel disappointed. I could not focus on my work last 3 weeks as I was too much in love. now I feel like I will not be thinking about him all day and be able to focus on work (of course which pays the bill)
First, I decided to wait for sxx and then felt the pressure and gave in and now I kind of regret it.
It’s also that I do not enjoy sex with him, his balls are already empty when he comes to me and then some sex and rest he wants to finish with his hand.
I kind of mentioned it and he said that he will now not masturbate and will wait for sxx with me so it’s better and he said “which means that I might call you like at night that I am horny and coming over (now I actually understand what booty call is) but don’t think that you are my sxx doll.”
I need advice on how to bring back the newness and ‘know each other phase’ alive. I fear losing him too as he is a good person. I went on hundreds of dates, and almost all of them want to see me again but I never liked anybody. I liked him enough to continue with him.
It’s kind of my first good relationship. Before I was in an ‘on and off’ 5-year narcissistic, sex addict abusive relationship.
I basically don’t know normal dating.
2 comments
You can do better
This is sounding like a rationship that’s going to turn into a narcissistic sex abuser as well.
Maybe you don’t like other guys because you’re type is these awful men for whatever reason and you aren’t allowing yourself to open up the type of men you could like.
I try to be optimistic but I can already imagine the arguments down the line on this one.
I know it sucks 🙁