I’m 28F and just discovered I have a thing for it, lol! Rubbing/ grinding in jeans specifically feels amazing because of the friction/ pressure from the denim fabric and of course, feeling that dick print. I also like that I have complete control of the tempo. Anyone else? Or do you view dry humping as too juvenile to get into? I think its a great form of foreplay that involves lots of teasing before the real thing!

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  1. Personally, I love it. I dry hump my BF regularly. I also grind on him naked while I’m giving him a massage, a two in one!

  7. A girl(22F) I (23M) was dating started it when we couldnt do the deed.

    I was a bit weirded out first, but then I had fun teasing her. But after like 20 minutes Id get blue balls, and one time by penis was a bit sore..

  8. I love it. I struggle with PIV lately so there is a bit anxiety around that but dry humping stimulates without any pressure of coming fast (my so doesn’t pressure me btw. All in my head) or the anxiety that comes with PIV. So yeah, really enjoy it.

  10. It’s a definite “yay” from me! As someone who enjoys indirect stimulation very much, it feels absurdly good.

  11. My late wife and I used to have a thing, on nights when she was not in the mood and I was, she would lay next to me while I masturbated. Almost invariably she would end up dry humping my 🦵 and a good time was had by all.

  12. Never tried it but I heard it feels amazing and one good side is no STDs

  13. I find it to be an important part of the makeout to sex pipeline.
    Especially since we usually start on the couch fully clothed, where I need to straddle the guy to be able to kiss him properly.

  15. Ooh, yes please. The more buildup the better (I think). I love to put on some nice lipstick and leave kiss marks on their chest and sides too.

  16. I like it if we are in a comfortable spot, like the bed. It also had to be very slow and sensual or I don’t get much from it.

  18. This is the main way the girl I’ve been hooking up with finishes, I’m always real thrilled that she’s very direct about what Gets her off

  19. I mean, I have a teddy , I dry hump him, he has a plastic nose 🤫🤫

  20. Love laying with my back against his front grind my ass into his cock while fully dressy and him reaching around rubbing my pussy through my clothes. He can kiss and bite my neck so very hot

  21. I hereby say YAY to dry humping! One night my bf & I were cuddling (no intention of sex cuz we did it the other day) and we just looked at each other and started making out. And after he started giving me a hickies on my neck I was in the zone and began growling and grinding, before you know it we were off to the races!

  22. It can be a good substitute for penetrative sex if you’re too tired, or if there are medical conditions prohibiting it either temporarily or permanently. Or it can be foreplay that leads to the “main event”. Either way, it’s awesome.

  23. My wife and I have been together nearly 30 years, and this is still her favorite way to orgasm.

    Also, it’s a great exercise for those seeking the ability to orgasm during PIV intercourse if you can replicate that stimulation during sex (the way our parts line up, that comes naturally in missionary and cowgirl positions).

  24. I like it. Though we don’t do it very often anymore. Dry humping as you make out was always nice.

  25. I like it. Though we don’t do it very often anymore. Dry humping as you make out was always nice.

  26. Thanks for this post. As a guy I wondered if girls liked it. I feel they are obligated to agree with me sometimes though.

  27. i absolutely love it, kinda like a lovey and sexy thing at once, i love when he rubs on my leggings and feeling his print on one of my cheeks is like a whole different feeling

  28. I agree it’s a Great starter, adds to the sexual tension. It’s all about the foreplay guys !!

  29. Common thing in my (m29) relationship she (25f) is quite sensitive so the clothing helps with that a bit. She also loves pressure.

  30. As someone who’s struggled with vaginismus, this was for a long time one of the only options I had. With my most recent partner we have actually both been able to orgasm despite the many layers of clothing. Truly an insane/delightful experience. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  32. I’ve done this when I was younger and got a slight rug burn on myself, lol.

  33. When I was a 15yr old still virgin I was making out with my girlfriend and both of us had sweat pants on and we started missionary dry humping. Yeah ummm both of us had to change our pants afterwards! I don’t think I have ever ejaculated that much cum again in my life! It was ridiculous lol

  34. Yesss its so fucking hot. It is the biggest form of foreplay to get me absolutely soaked

  37. It’s a great tease and way to set the mood and tone.
    As a man that loves erotism, ladies, I highly encourage it.

    Taking things slow tends to be highly underrated and yet, a good pace can lead to extreme euphoric pleasure, when done right.

    Honestly, it’s a great thing to see a good number here, that enjoys it. 😊

  38. In high-school as a virgin dry humping was my jam LOL I can’t say I do it much as a 28 yr old woman BUT occasionally during foreplay I like to rub against my boyfriends leg.

  39. There’s something about making out and dry humping that cannot be matched by other foreplay. Def my favorite way to get things primed and ready

  40. One of my fantasies is to have a woman grind on me when we both have clothes on. Like strattling both legs, groin on groin, specifically humping my erection, staring straight into my soul.

  41. I love it. Discreetly. I love sitting on my boyfriends lap or against him on a train/bus. I’m bottom heavy so it turns him on a lot and he asks me to stop when he can’t hide being hard. I love to feel it against me as it happens

  43. I’d absolutely love to do this but haven’t had the opportunity yet to.

  44. I am in my 40s and LOVE it. Especially when both parties get so into it that you can’t grind hard enough. I also love when we’re out together, I will stand in front of him and graze my butt cheeks against his crotch. Very enticing.

  45. I really want just once even to start foreplay making out on the couch like teenagers and dry humping until we can’t take it anymore

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