Okay, I have a new coworker who I already really “like like.” I’m 25, she’s 20. We’ve only talked a couple times, and she’s a really sweet person so I genuinely have no idea yet if she likes me back or if she just likes talking to everyone. What are some good questions to ask to try to get to know her better without making it too obvious I’m into her? If this is a dumb question, I apologize. I am very capable of coming up with questions on my own, but I desperately don’t want to screw this up by asking too much if she isn’t into me or seeming too uninterested when I’m very interested. I already got full on butterflies after talking to her today, so much so that I couldn’t eat lunch. I’ve usually went the Jim Halpert route of hoping for a slow burn, and it truly hasn’t paid off once. I really want to put myself out there as far as I can without making it uncomfortable since we have to work together. Is this possible?
EDIT: to the “don’t shit where you eat” crowd, this is not a career job. I likely won’t be working at this company by the late fall anyway
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Nah bro don’t shit where you eat
Don’t effin do it, sir. You will regret it later. Especially if it goes sour.
You couldn’t eat lunch from just talking to her? let your crush go and stop trying to figure out if she likes you or not. You sound a little obsessive. Its work. Let people enjoy work and talking to other co workers without thinking someone is flirting.
Dont listen to these Reddit virgins, I’d you listen to reddit then nobody would ever speak yo a women again because apparently in reddits opinion, everywhere is inappropriate to speak to a women nowadays, just get a feel for how she speaks to you, whether its flirty or friendly and just go from there.
Ask her about her interests.. like what she does on a reg weekend. If let’s say it’s hiking or running… whatever… then… “oh yeah, me too” it’s likea career move…. fake it til u make it…😆🤣🤗
It ruined my life. Don’t do it