Alright so basically there has been multiple occasions now where she has told me that I’m tearing her when I’m fingering/eating her out..first with the fingering she said it hurts because of my nails but Ive had the habit of picking them to the point where there as low as possible since I was a kid ..that’s how they always are so I don’t see how that would be possible..ig it boils down to me doing it at too much of a fast pace for her..she also has told me to use one finger instead of two also..Now fast foward the most recent time I gave her oral she said it hurt and to slow down & that I tore again because I was going to fast but I was doing it the same way I always do and she has told me how it’s very pleasurable for her and how she always wants it..but it’s just confusing to me because I’m not violently licking or pulling on anything I’m just licking and penetrating with my tongue/lightly sucking her clit so how would that cause bleeding..also I noticed that when I was eating her out vagina from behind her anus had a little bit of blood coming down from it but I’ve never inserted anything in there or did anything with that area..I didn’t spread her butt or nothing that would potentially cause that either
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Try using generous amounts of lubrication. Some women have very thin lined and sensetive labia. It would also be best to talk about it with her and get her suggestions.
Go slow. Really slow. Let her lead you through things at her pace. If you’re goal is to pleasure her, take the time to learn how to do it properly. Don’t let your ego get bruised either.