I love my girlfriend and really enjoy being with her. Sex, however, is a bit more difficult with us. We started off pretty vanilla but then she told me she was submissive and so we only had sex with me as the dominant – which I really don’t enjoy doing. I then ‘came out’ as a sub to her and she dommes me now and then but she doesn’t like it and always has to masturbate either before or after to get off.
I don’t like how we just have to take turns to get to enjoy having sex and they both of us aren’t able to enjoy it at the same time.
Any suggestions?
Note: As much as I am open to it, cucking or involving others is completely out of the question unfortunately.
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Have you considered listening to some Dom/sub r/gonewildaudio together and doing mutual masturbation, seeing where that leads?
You say you’re open to involving others, but you also say it’s out of the question – so then she’s not open to it? I used to Domme a couple and it was really fun.
Like you HAVE to get off at the same time? Or can you switch? For instance some times I’ll take a dominant role and do a bunch of play. Get the woman off. And then switch to submissive role. Get my ass spanked and pegged. Collapse and cuddle at the end.