Me (22) and my partner (22) have only been together a couple of months, we did rush into a relationship but we both knew that we would be good for eachother
The relationship is long distance over 100 miles away from each other. At the start we would ft every night but im aware we wouldn’t stay in the honeymoon phase forever. Now we text a bit throughout the day but he mainly just sends pics of his face
I find that when I try to make conversation he tends to ignore my text and reply with a pic, so i end up repeating myself a lot which he then gets annoyed at me for
He kicked off the other night because i did this and told me I’m making him feel ‘claustrophobic’ although like I said we’re 100 miles apart. I try to distance myself but when I do he then reaches out and asks why I haven’t replied but im just giving him the space he asks
I dont know what to do and where to go from this
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your attachment styles differ from each other he wants his space but that’s the very reason why you want more attention from him when he backs off that’s when you go into clingy mode