Together 6 months known each other two years and have been on off over the two years.
Got told today by my partner that he loves me but is not in love with me. I got told that he was pressured into a relationship by me and that I don’t see what I did. I got told that he still loves his ex even after everything she has done. We where perfect on Monday and he met his ex Tuesday and this happened today. I feel like my whole life has just fallen apart. He says he needs time to work through things in his head. I need advice on what to do next.
I posted the last day here about him going silent for two days.
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Actually this is awesome. No really I mean that. Because of this would have happened 3 years from now after you were married it would have been exponentially more devastating.
I want to be clear this sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through this.
From your post it sounds like he’s verbally justifying what he’s decided in his head is the reason for ending the relationship.
Truly it’s not you it’s him.
It’s painful but I want you to focus on yourself, maybe a little therapy a little self work make sure you fully love yourself before you get out there dating again.
You’re going to be all right! Keep it chin up and it’s okay to mourn this for a little while but don’t get to the point you’re wallowing you want to move forward not focus on the rearview mirror. Take care.
I’ve heard these exact same words.. from a CheaterX of 23yrs. Yup this hurts like hell… but focus and push through. Better now than later.
Hope is a tangible thing. You deserve better. Believe it and get out of this HORRIBLE situation ! Block him and find yourself. The beautiful and amazing YOU!