I just started having sex with my boyfriend. He is a little rough when he goes down on me, especially fingering me. Last week after sex with him, my clit was a bit itchy and irritated, but nothing too bad. However, since yesterday when we had sex, my labia flaps are super swollen and I can hardly walk straight.
I don’t know how to bring this up as I love his passion in the bedroom and I don’t want him to lose his steam.
Also, if anyone has advice I am in a lot of pain. Painkillers and ice aren’t really helping and I don’t have health insurance until July.
(PS I don’t have an STD, we were both tested before having sex.😭 )
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Was there maybe something he ate or touched that youre allergic to?
Might be a yeast infection. Treat both of you for it. He might have it in his mouth.
It looks like what I get in my foreskin when I mastrubate for long … it gets tender, swollen and painful.
Next time try using a good silicone based lube like Exxtreme Glide Silicone, Pjur Backdoor, Uberlube… to avoid the friction (water based lubes and saliva dry out and are not as effective as silicone based lubes)!