Our thoughts on sexual Fantasy

I thought l would share our thoughts on this debate about sexual fantasys,

Will start by giving some background about us. We have been happily married for 32 years , my wife and l are very close. Have a great sex life and over the years we have both forfilled many of our sexual desires, We are defiantly not the die hard swingers types but just like spicing things up every now and [then.My](https://then.My) wife is good looking and dresses sexy when ever we are out and all though she always gets a lot of attention from men she is very fussy when it comes to guys she feels attracted too Because we are not jealous we are not afraid to tell each other who we are attracted too and what what turns us on.

For sometime my wife has had this sexual fantasy she tells me sometimes when we are in bed.

The first time she told me about this fantasy was when we came back home after we had been partying the night at a bar celebrating a once a year party which we go to with close friends and family.

Her fantasy is we were all back at that Bar, alcohol was flowing, everyone was dancing and our good friend who had recently just broke up with his wife offered to help her carry the drinks from the Bar. While she stood in front of the bar waiting to be served he was standing right behind her. The place was overcrowded and he was pushed up against her by accident so she could feel his body right up tight against hers, He is tall and looked down and just smiled and instead of trying to move forward to gain some space my wife said she done the exact oppersit by pushing her bum back tight up against his groin and then slowly started to grind, she said she could feel him getting hard and that started to turn her on, she then felt his hand squeeze her bum and moved up her thigh under her dress and touch her clit….she slowly moved her legs apart without being obvious so he had better access to her pussy and he managed to put his finger in,while he was doing this she was trying not to moan so nobody would notice. No one around was aware what was going on and this all only lasted a few minutes and when the drinks arrived they both walked back to our group as if nothing had happened and enjoyed the rest of the evening.

We are both fully aware this would never happen in real life and thats what makes it a great sexual fantasy.

Knowing my wife well there are a few things about this fantasy that turn her on, her being felt up in a public place with absolutley nobody noticing , the excitement of not getting caught, The thrill that she was making him aroused and last but not least The Taboo of allowing a good friend who she likes to feel her up.

Some might ask what l get out of this and the truth is it excites me just as much as her because l love seeing her having a good time pleasuring herself while she is telling me this fantasy l also get turned on seeing her playing because she is pretty Hot to watch when she mastrubates……for us its a win win situation

At the end of the day sexual fantasies are normal and if nobody is getting hurt there is no harm including them in your sexlife.