Husband just leaves home without saying anything to me or anyone. He does at least once a week sometimes more. It makes me angry. Am I over reacting? I can’t take a shower without someone looking for me or interrupting.
Grrrrrr

8 comments

  1. Sounds like everyone needs some space and time apart and then come back together and try to talk about what is going on and feeling

    I hope you can find some time of silence and peace and pamper

  2. Yeah that’s rude. Common courtesy is letting your spouse know if you’re leaving and when you’ll be back. Especially if you have kids or dependents.

  3. I don’t care where he is going or when he is coming back. It’s just so strange that one minute he’s here the next he’s gone. He doesn’t have to sneak out . It feels that way. When i see him leave, i don’t say anything..I don’t ask where are you going or anything.

  4. So sometimes I wanna do this to my husband to make him wonder where I was even if it’s just me going to the gas station, this is just a thought in my head I’ve never actually done something like this, it’s usually when my intrusive thoughts kick in and tell me that he doesn’t worry about me lmao so dumb I know I’m healing from past trauma

  5. Are we talking about leaving for entire day or just going to the store or gym?

    Do you ask him (text or call) where he is?

  7. Overreacting? Of course not.

    This is very rude. And this is not how healthy marriages work. When you point this out, what does he say?

    And there’s nothing wrong with asking him where he’s going.

  8. If you have kids this is unacceptable. If you don’t then you’re being dramatic. He should be able to come and go from his home as he pleases.

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