does this mean they need, for example, 10 minutes of very enjoyable stimulation to slowly build up to orgasm over the course of those 10 minutes?
or do they mean that maybe while their guy is going down on them, it takes him 5 minutes to find a good spot, and then 5 minutes to build up to orgasm?
edit: guys i’m a woman lol. i’m just trying to get clarification on what this means when we say “it takes me x long to finish”
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It means they don’t want a 3 pump chump… simply put, they don’t get off from a little insertion, they need some work. Just put in the work and you’ll be fine.
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It can take less than 10 min for some women but it doesn’t mean that they orgasm for ten minutes straight it means it takes 10 min for it to build up, but basically what the person above said they dont want a one minute man
Depends on the woman. We’re not a hive mind. Ask the woman in question if you want to know what she means.
I think what they mean is “I need 10 minutes of clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm”, because for most women 5 minutes or less of clitoral stimulation isn’t enough to make them cum but too many men think it is.
I have never heard a fellow woman say anything like this 🤷 I’ve heard it takes me “forever” or I can come “quickly”.
Why specifically like a number of minutes??
I think The above statement, “I need 10 minutes to cum” is ,a mean time of stimulation that is required for a healthy,sexually active and average women to reach to a climax.Stimulations include vaginal, clitoral or oral.That I deduced if a woman is aroused,she may climax by 10 minutes of continuous stroking, clitoral stimulation or by any means.
For my wife it used to be a real struggle. 10 minutes of work with a Hitachi, with no guarantee of success — SSRI meds can suck that way.
Even now that she can orgasm at the drop of a hat, it was a reality for so long that she was resisting orgasms for a while because they’d be too much work. It’s a hard mindset to break, even though it only takes ten seconds with our Satisfyer.
I’ve even gotten her to agree to letting me give her unreciprocated orgasms before bed sometimes, because they always result in better sleep for her.