I couldn’t get it up

Girl came over for a 2nd date. We had pizza and drank rum. Then we went to have sex and I was hard for like 5 seconds and then couldn’t recover. She stayed for a little while after then went home.

How bad did I fuck up? Is it over

6 comments

  1. Ain’t the end of the world. She’ll prob give you a second chance

  2. If she’s really into you then she’ll probably see you again. If it continues to happen then she’ll start to question why.

  3. I dated a guy a few months ago that was having this issue almost every single time we tried to have sex the first couple of times. I was thinking I was going something wrong or turning him off in some way. She’ll likely give you a second chance and chalk it up to nerves/booze. My suggestion if it happens again would be to explain to her that it isn’t anything concerning her (unless it is). It would really calm some anxiety women can get relating to sex.

  4. Feminine perspective here!!! Maybe it will ease your mind.
    I’m dating a guy and the first time we had sex he was hard for a while and then, just like you, he couldn’t get it up again. We just cuddled.
    I like him so it wasn’t a problem for me. I get it, you guys sometimes get in your head, get anxious or nervous. It happens.
    Have you guys talked about what happened or not? It’s important to talk because maybe she thinks that you’re not attracted to her or that it is her fault, we girls have these kind of insecurities hahah

  6. Talk to her about it

    If you stress about it you will only make it worse.

    Just be honest and talk to her, I am sure she will understand, and if she doesn’t it’s her loss

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