My gf (23) and I (25) had a threesome before with a girl so I agreed to have one with a guy. She picked out a guy she grinded with at a bar and we brought him home.
My gf usually isn’t super enthusiastic about giving me head – she likes to be in control, she rarely swallows, and she struggles with going down on me all the way even though I’m average-sized.
But with this guy, she gave him an amazing blowjob. He had a big dick and she enthusiastically went all the way down on him repeatedly. She encouraged him to throatfuck her and he came down her throat.
If my gf struggles with deepthroating me, why would she be so enthusiastic about doing it with him? I’ll ask her but what do you think the real reason is?
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Communicate with your partner. There’s no way for us to know.
Just how horny she is probably. The hornier someone is the more likely they are to do freakier stuff enthusiastically lol
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If she was drunk then that makes some people extra horny and kinky
It’s not the guy. It’s the situation. It’s likely an opportunity for you to step up the kink in the bedroom. Which I guarantee 1000% isn’t going to happen is you make it a “woe is me” kind of thing.
If she got horny during, she’ll likely get horny doing some like role playing. Bring it up as dirty talk next time. Use some dirty names. Tell her “Show me how you can suck a cock!” Be confident.
She was more attracted to him. It happens
People will go further the more aroused they are. Her getting to enact a fantasy she had unlocked things that she would normally not do.
This is not a bad thing but something you need to talk about, depending on how you approach it and her responses you both will have a better sex life.
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I find that giving a bigger dick a blow job is easier if I’m super turned on and I know it’s something that’s being witnessed.
Plus alcohol helps me a lot
It was a new and exciting experience. Threesomes always have more energy.
Probably would have acted the same nomatter what 2nd cock was involved.
In the end remember you (because you are fun and open minded) made that night happen. She’ll think about her threesome with two guys till she dies and it’s all because are so cool.
You should always talk about rules and expectations first. If you didnt like it than maybe its not for you.
I’m more and more convinced 98% of the posts that seem to be about one thing but turn out to be about dick size are fake.
She was stepping up her game for the situation as it probably made her more horny than ever. Take credit as it takes a certain type of partner to allow that type of sexual encounter. She let you have your playtime, now was hers. If the other guy was pounding her and she was blowing you she probably would have been going crazy on you and moaning extra loud for the other guy more than usual. Just the way it can be but she does need to be mindful of your overall feelings not to give you the wrong impression. Size of the dick is not the complete goods and it sounds like u give her everything she wants. Not many men would do that due to jealousy and other reasons.
She’d be a ex girlfriend the next day
She’s the only woman and has the attention of two men at the same time. It’s super hot and she was probably super turned on. It allows you to get really freaky.
Like possible-newb-sub said, use it in dirty talk.
Make sure you are giving her enough attention when it’s just the two of you. How much time/effort are you putting into her pleasure. It makes a huge difference. Go in with the intention of making her cum first and often and then see how good of a blowjob she gives you.
My guess is that the situation made her feel a bit more slutty/turned on and/or she was trying to put on a show for you. Either to make you proud or jealous. Or maybe both!
Depending on how long you guys have been together maybe she was just excited for something new? Or was feeling confident? I would say just communicate with her.
She’s a size queen
Until it’s discussed with her, all your gonna get is speculation.
Me and my wife play with others and this happens. I believe it’s not the size of this guys dick that had her going it was having you there as well and she was able to let loose. Make sure to communicate with her because she could probably say the same for you when you had another female play.
I am more worried about the fact u invite someone u have just met back to your house & not a motel room . This bloke now knows where u live & what do u know about him . Or when she picked out a bloke she grinded with at a bar , she has been doing a lot more than that behind your back with him before & she had already teed him up to what was to go down that night .
Usually you get extra horny with the new person, this applies to men too
We’ll probably see you on a cheating subreddit in a couple of months.
Be honest, when is the last time you kissed her without thinking about that guy cumming down her throat?
Give us an update OP
just probably felt more aroused by him
Maybe it’s the novelty of a new guy? Was she this entusiastic with you in the beginning at least? If yes, Id think novelty.
When you meet a stranger you can be everything you want to be. Also people always try to look better /be better with a stranger to show the nicest light. It might be the case. She just wanted to.. show off being a good girl.
Even a few days ago I posted about a threesome thing which my girls wants as her fantasy. But my guy forget that I would never be able to share her with anyone. I can’t even feel what you may feel.
There could be a vast array of reasons, truth be told she may not even know why herself.
One thing that could also be a factor is the level of energy between the two of them. And im not just referringto the physical build up in the bar. We all have a freak down inside, sometimes we just need someone to match our vibrations to bring her out.
maybe yours is just the right length to hit the gag reflex or be uncomfortable to deep throat and his can go past that. Different partners mean a different experience all together. I haven’t had the same sex with any partner I’ve been with or done the same
things the same exact way. Everyone is different. Talk to her about it.
I couldn’t do it, more power to you. I’d probably read too much into things and would end up hating myself for doing that. It’s cool that it’s other people’s bag but I’m also glad to know enough about myself that I’d just jealous and would fuck things up.
what the fuck
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Has anyone mentioned the SHAPE of his dick? It’s not necessarily about size when it comes to giving head. He may have had a different curve or girth than you do which made it easier for her. If you’re super thick she will struggle to deep throat you, regardless of length 🤷🏻♀️ try different angles, for example if she usually sucks you while on her knees try laying down on the bed with her between your legs. Lots of options to try different angles if that’s the problem. Or maybe it’s not about going all the way in and you just want more of that “pornstar” enthusiasm from her, which is easy to communicate as others have suggested.
She might have been showing off for you.
When a couple brings a NEW third person into the bedroom, the third person always gets more attention. The only way I can describe it is like being able to play with a new toy. Or like if you have a dog, and you get a second dog, you give the second dog more attention for a while, because it’s new and exciting.
Happens every single time, and I can assure you, it’s not a problem with you. If that’s your only concern, don’t worry about it man.
Was she drunk? That can help with just about everything you’ve mentioned
Is he shaved? Are you sure your penis doesn’t smell? Those things can get in the way of giving a good bj. The novelty of doing it for a random guy may have made her perform better as well.
Don’t ask her why…start looking for a new girlfriend. Never repeat this mistake again.
The real reason is she was getting some strange and really enjoyed it. Don’t overthink it, but that’s the challenge with stuff like this. Just don’t overthink it.
Studies have shown over and over again that the female libido is driven by novelty.
This means women don’t have to be more attracted to them or they are necessarily better than you in bed, they just have to be new/different.
She WILL almost always have better sex with him simply because it’s new and exciting and not because she is unhappy with your sex life or you.
This is the danger of threesomes, hotwifing and cuckolding for men. Your jealously of her reaction to novelty WILL almost always put you in a bad head place.
People can do what they want but these activities are definitely risk laden and it’s not something you can take back.
You fucked up. Pandora’s box is now open. This is the beginning of the end of your relationship.
Lesson learned.
She was more attracted to the other guy. If a women is finds a guy that she’s really attracted to there’s nothing she won’t do with enthusiasm. A girl who doesn’t do certain sex acts with a current guy will do them with a smile with the next guy or her ex. How to know that she’s attracted to you like that? If before you guys got together she said something like I only have sex with people I’m emotionally connected with then you’re not that guy.
Nah, that is CRAAAZY, this is just wild to me
This sub is just horrible with advice oh my god, the mass gaslighting of OP is insane, I am speechless