I have been on countless of dates but everytime it’s the same story, the date goes so well, they all says to me i’m so smart, mature, handsome and all kind of compliments and then when it ends, either i don’t hear much from them or the situation stays the same, i never had someone really show any sign of getting attached/ infatuated to me, go even a bit out their way to try make something happen with me.
It’s so frustrating, i’m wondering why nothing haven’t happened yet. I must have been on around 20 dates for the past year. It’s taking a bit of toll on me since i never had a girlfriend up until now, I never had a girl reciprocate my feelings.
I’m not doing online dates, and yes, i am focussing on myself and improving.
Thoughts? Anyone in my same situation?
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I recommend rethinking your dating strategy. Think about the parts of it you think needs to change. Please remember there is no perfect strategy so don’t stress yourself out being perfect.
Just going to ask a simple question, brother.
What do you look like? Height, weight, body type, face.
And also, what is your personality like?
Just simple questions and if you like you can send me a chat if it becomes too private.
I’m in the same situation, and what sucks is that the less you want it, the more you get it.
I would say just introspect. See if you really want someone to fall in love with you.
If yes, why?
If no, is it a similar feeling or an offshoot of it? Like acceptance, validation, warmth? Or something less romantic like wanting to have the power in a relationship or wanting someone devoted to you?
Think about it, and act on your answer. Unclear and displaced feelings will result in a waste of time for everyone, including other women and yourself.
Do you flirt?