I know a lot of guys like to come the same way they’ve been built up. I want my boyfriend to be able to come in my mouth, as he’s asked before and I felt terrible for turning him down even though he says he’s just as happy to come on my chest. The only thing stopping me is I have some sensory issues regarding things in my mouth. I’m not worried about the taste but more about the texture and I’m worried it’s going to make me sick or something the first time.
Does anyone have any advice on how to maybe ease into it? What does it feel like? Etc.
I really want to be able to do this for him and it would be fun for me to finally make him come from a bj without him having to finish himself.
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I don’t blame you, taste terrible
I prefer facials to him finishing in my mouth, and guys are usually all for that, would that be better for you do you think?
Maybe try a small amount on your finger and put it in your mouth. That way you can take it in small doses to potentially build up gradually. Your bf will be all in if you tell him what you want to try.
Make sure he understands that you need to go at this in your own speed. IF you wanted, you could let him cum somewhere else on you; then you can taste it when you leave the room to clean up and there’s no pressure to react anyway.
But also, if you just don’t want to, then don’t. He can taste it himself if he’s too insistent 😅
I’m a bi guy, so I’ve been on both sides of this. It’s your choice whether or not to allow him to do this.
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My advice is to allow him to cum into your hand first, put your hand in your mouth to familiarize yourself with his flavor and texture, before spitting it out. You don’t need to swallow, although you definitely can if you’re into that.
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Assuming that goes fine, then when he’s about to finish, you’ll want to raise the back of your tongue to the roof of your mouth, like you are a making an “N” sound. This will prevent the semen from going down your throat. Just make sure he warns you before he starts to orgasm.
A couple options:
* Learn to deep throat so the cum bypasses the mouth entirely, although that comes with its own baggage as well.
* Have a trashcan nearby in case things don’t work out. At least you would have tried and you would both know.
* Trying licking a little off your hand or his dick after he cums and see how that goes.
Have you tried taking a little from your chest after he ejaculates, and trying it? That’s probably the least problematic way to determine if it’s going to be a problem in reality rather than it being a fear of the unknown.
But you can also finish him without him coming in your mouth. All you have to do is start using your hands more. That way, once he’s getting very close to ejaculation, you can back off of the oral stimulation and let the remaining saliva serve as lube while you stroke him to a finish.
You can even experiment with where the semen hits as a way to get used to it. Start with letting it touch your lips as it comes out, then maybe your tongue with the lips closed, then across the tongue with your mouth open, but positioned so that it slides off the tongue. Those are all perfectly great ways to finish anyway, so it isn’t like he’ll object. But by gradually moving towards the ejaculation occuring inside the mouth, with the lips closed, you have a better chance of bypassing any sensory triggers that might occur if you just went for it.
Now, semen is a little weird feeling. And the taste can be strong. But remember, it’s mostly water with small amounts of proteins. It’s a little sticky, a little salty, slightly sour, and then the specifics are changed by diet, medications, and hydration. It isn’t as bad as it gets made out to be. What *is* bad is not being prepared for it.
I don’t love the texture, and actually get a little squeamish about licking it off his belly after it cools, for example, but I find that if I swallow as he comes it’s not a big deal and I don’t really feel the texture. It doesn’t take deep throating either, just go however deep you’re comfortable going and swallow immediately.
I don’t like swallowing or getting in my mouth I much prefer it on my face or tits…
the taste is horrible and texture is bad too
As some one else has suggested already, there is a middle way here that is kind of a cheat; get him off with your hand(s) first. Then get a nip of the sticky stuff on your finger and taste it.
That way, you’ll get a more reasonably sensible amount, and no surprise wad of cum suddenly erupting in your mouth.
Think about it.
A few things you could try:
* have him come on your hand during a handjob (or as the “finisher move” of a BJ) and taste it briefly to acclimatize yourself to the taste/texture
* when he comes, let your mouth go slack so that most of the cum drips out onto his stomach/pubis; that way you can taste a little without needing to swallow it all
* do it through a condom at first so you get used to the motions and warmth etc. of it
You don’t HAVE to do this in order to be a good lover. There’s a very good possibility you’ll throw up, and sacrificing your comfort for his oftentimes leads to resentment.
As a guy it’s not a huge deal to me if I cum in her mouth as long as she doesn’t just stop all action when I let her know I’m about to cum – so as long as she keeps stroking with hands or breasts or whatever no big deal for me.
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I can totally understand the texture thing, maybe try letting him cum in your hand or on your chest and then try licking some of it up. Depending on his diet it might not taste bad.
Flavoured condom?
Might be a good half way before going natural?
i actually hate cum in my mouth and just make it clear up front i’m not into it. most guys are happy to cum on my tits, ass etc and i find it way hotter anyway.
have him lay down and blow him or give him a handy and let him cum on his stomach. Then go down and clean it up.
Honestly I don’t like the texture either but I swallow every time. When he is about to cum, put his dick as far down your throat as you can so that when it comes out, it’s goes straight down instead of pooling in your mouth and tongue area. That way you really aren’t able to feel the texture at all.
I don’t love it either, when I take it though put the shaft as far in your mouth without gagging as you can so it misses a lot of your tongue. You can always spit if you can’t quite stomach it.
This is kind of weird lol but I use hydrogen peroxide kind of like a mouth wash once or twice a week as a deep clean. I find cum tastes very similar, just more salty and a different texture of course lol.
My wife spits it out on me immediately. Usually she doesn’t let me cum in her mouth and instead just jacks me off when I get really close. She can always tell.
You could let him cum in your mouth and then spit it. I once was with a girl who’d bring a cup for this purpose whenever I asked for a blow job.
Eventually, you might even get used to the texture and learn to swallow.
Honestly I can only take it in my mouth when I’m super horny, tipsy/drunk, and has to be at the back of my throat so it goes right down.
Men that are hydrated!! It’s tastes better. It’s going to get all over your face… just expect it.
When he is cums bury his cock in your throat and hold, keep moving your tongue to keep it feeling good for him and this will bypass your taste buds. Don’t take your mouth off until he is done Win/win situation and you might even find that you like the little taste you get when he pulls his cock out. 😉
I used to hate it too for similar reasons but you get used to it with time and then it doesn’t bother you, at least that’s my experience. Keep a drink nearby maybe.
It is perfectly ok to not let him cum in your mouth. I have had dozens of gals give me blow jobs over the years. By far most made me cum at the last minute on their face or chest. A few took my cum in their mouth but quickly spit it out. I have never had a woman swallow all my cum and suck me dry. I think that’s a porn thing and very infrequent in real life.