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Please help
Been there. You gotta learn to just let what comes come, and what goes go. Don’t try to force anything. Don’t try to control anything. Do what you want and let what comes come, and what goes go. You must go with the flow, let
go of things, don’t resist the change. Life is about making mistakes and learning from them. Take risks, don’t be afraid of failures, it’s all part of the growing process. You’ll learn, change, and grow yourself.
Now is the time you need to focus on becoming genuinely busy in life pursuing your goals and hobbies, while learning how to interact with other people on the side. People are hardwired to be repulsed by those who are needy, desperate, and overly attached to them. They instead gravitate towards somebody who is self confident and well rounded in life. The Easiest way to get started is to find some kind of activity you enjoy doing and keep doing it overtime. You will build self esteem and self confidence. Chase excellence, not people.