When I first started masturbating, before any sexual trauma, I never felt pleasure from touching my vagina. Not in the slightest way. It feel like someone rubbing my arm.
It doesn’t matter how turned on I am, how wet I get, it doesn’t feel good.
I was sexually frustrated and tried a bunch of different things when I was younger. Ice, lube, penetration. I eventually stumbled upon no touch orgasms and somehow learned to cross my legs and squeeze my thighs together. Idk what I’m even squeezing but it has be at the right angle and can be pretty tense, unsatisfactory orgasms. I have never finished any other way.
I have been in love with men and not wanted to have sex with them because the penetration usually just hurts. Men can never satisfy me and it kills their ego and my sex urges to basically zero.
My doctor is not much help and I am so sick of people telling me I don’t know my body or I wasn’t attracted to the other person. I know a million things that don’t feel good. The question is, will anything ever?
Has anyone else in the world experienced this?
1 comment
There are many other parts of the body that can make you feel pleasure.
I know the most obvious are sexual organs, but kisses on the neck or a soft touch on many other parts may make you feel pleasure. One thing I hate about heteronormativity is that it devides foreplay and sex into two categories, but in reality foreplay is just sex if you put your mind into it and don’t treat it as a mean to an end.
I would encourage you to find someone to explore your sexuality in a less pornographic way, try finding pleasure in uncommon (not mainstream) ways and most importantly, stimulating your mind.