Recently I started sexting with a friend with benefits or possible lover idk which it’s complicated. Anyways when we were doing dirty talk I called him a slut but he seemed bothered by it. I told him I was projecting my kinks onto him; I have a bit of a humiliation fetish where I like being called a slut myself. However he said was uncomfortable with that too. We’ve been trying to think of another word that isn’t “slut” but is just as “sexy” and displays a dominating connotation. Any ideas?

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  1. I’ve used naughty, bad boy/girl, whore if that’s not too strong of a word. Fuck toy is a good one as well.

  2. Dirty bitch, but like Slut is a great one! Nice guys are hard to come by so maybe read some porn to him and he will get into it more?

  3. Fuck boy/ fuck toy/cum daddy/human dildo / boy toy/ “my dick” are all good options.

    Really depends on the level of humiliation you’re going for. At the lowest level you could call him “my lap dick – and tell him that’s all he’s worth for.” Or at the more tame – tell him his dick is YOUR dick to do whatever you want with. Named terms aside. You don’t call him anything but rather say “it’s all mine, or give me that dick, that’s my dick”

    Ideas and thoughts.

    Enjoy and stay safe!

  4. My husband and I call each other sluts all the time, and we own that shit. It’s done in a sexy uplifting way and is not at all derogatory, so it really just depends on the power you give it. We just started getting into the swinging lifestyle after more than two decades of monogamy, so we are having a lot of fun wearing the slut badge with honor.

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