I’m in my mid 20s and have had a great time in the dating game, but there part of me that feels almost broken(?) I guess.
Like I will date some of the most amazing women, be absolute head over heels, but right at 2-3 month I just lose that feeling. The girls aren’t psycho or too needy or have anything wrong really – I just start wanting way more alone time.
Is this something that goes away as I get older, or is it possible – similar how someone is born gay – could I just be born to not desire monogamy, like some gene missing .
Feels like a super stupid question, but I feel bad leading girls on and it’s just been weighing on me and just want to hear input.
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Lol, that’s just being a man in his 20’s. Ride it until you’re bored and then maybe in your mid thirties you won’t feel that way anymore.
I slept with a lot not women in my 20s. Fewer in my 30s and now, well into my 40s, I’m not even interested in getting laid at all.
I suppose it would be OK to have someone else around to make some household decisions, but other than that, I’m pretty happy going home and everything being exactly as I expect it to be.
If someone cool just came and knocked on my door and asked me on a date, I’d go, but I’m not out searching for someone, hardly ever.
Not sure how wanting to be alone and monogamy are related thou
Okay no one is answering your question and I’m sorry. I’m also sorry that I haven’t had personal experience with this but I do have some insight. Nothing *makes* you settle down you kinda just grow into it when your ready. Don’t rush or force it bc you’ll be unhappy and your partner might end up unintentionally hurt (emotionally). You’re fine, just live life the best you can while you can. Hope this helps.
Your brain changes and you start to want more. You’ll eventually form an emotional connection to a chick and realize how much better it feels
And if you make it to that point without catching anything permanent, you’ll want to stop tempting fate
MEN WHO HAVE NO TROUBLE DATING
*gestures around*
You’re kidding, right?
I fucked tons of girls in my early 20s. Eventually the companionship and stability of a relationship became more valuable than the excitement of new partners. I still have some desire for new and different people, but I’d rather have something stable.