So I have a new girlfriend, and she is into bdsm. She says she is a “bratty sub”. I have no experience with this. She says she is very attracted to me but is stimulated verbally. What should I say?

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  3. I ask this with all the compassion in the world, but why are you asking *us*?

    She’s who you need to be talking to.

  4. She doesn’t want me to physically hurt her, and she’s not into degrading stuff. That’s why I’m not sure what she wants.

    She said I need to verbally stimulate her and get her in the mood that way. And I just don’t know what she wants me to say or how to approach it. She said it’s how I need to be outside the bedroom too. So I am just confused and a little lost

  5. You could maybe dominantly tell her to verbally tell you what she wants and how she wants it. “Use your words” does the trick for me when my dom wants me to be specific lol

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