I don’t have many friends at the moment. I always like the idea of people reaching out to me and having new friends, but when it actually happens, I get nervous and freeze up. The other day, I was talking in a Discord server and there was someone there who I thought was cool and wouldn’t mind being friends with. We didn’t talk very much, but one day she sent me a DM asking if I’d like to be friends. It was basically exactly what I wanted to happen! But when we started talking, I got really nervous that my responses weren’t interesting enough. I felt like I was racking my brain trying to come up with cool and interesting things to talk about, and I just couldn’t. I kind of panicked and ended up not responding and going cold, not because I didn’t want to be friends with her, but because I just couldn’t think of anything to say really.

Any advice?

2 comments
  1. Just be yourself man. If that person isn’t interested in what you say then fuck it that’s on them you gotta move on. Don’t be afraid to express yourself just because you think that you’re not saying something interesting enough.

Leave a Reply
You May Also Like