Hi I’m pretty new to all of this and while I have given a blowjob to someone before my current, I do not know how to handle this one. My boyfriend is on the bigger side with both girth and length. I would say he’s as thick as a cucumber and he is about 6-8 inches. I’m not sure exactly but giving him blowjobs is tiring and I do not know what to do because I can almost take half of it into my mouth before I feel like gagging. I tried the thumb trick so I could take more but it’s just so uncomfortable.
I know people say to use their hands but that’s just the thing.. He has a rule… No hands. I can’t use my hands to pleasure him while giving a blowjob as he holds them down onto his hips when I use his hips to keep my balance. I am scared that I am not pleasuring him enough and wish I could take it all down but I just don’t think I can because it’s too big. Any tips on what I could do with my tongue or other things?
Also, basic BJ tips are appreciated too. I am fairly new to this, both him and I are new to it we just don’t know what we are doing. He is very good in bed, and I always feel pleasured but I am scared I am not pleasuring him when I’m giving him a BJ because they seem to be his favorite thing.
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I know that for me when she focuses around the big ridges under and around the head it drives me crazy. To be sure though the no hands rule to me seems rather like unnecessary bullshit. You said you are both new to sex. Why make up a rule that makes it harder and less pleasurable ?
The no hands rule doesn’t make sense if he hosts a cucumber. Just saying.
Furthermore, it’s an act of pleasure, not a sport or a job (as the name incorrectly suggests).
Here are some things I enjoy when receiving oral sex:
• Doing circles round the head with their tongue.
• Some light, I mean very light teeth scraping my shaft as my cock goes in and out of her mouth.
• The wet lips as she works my shaft.
• Her hand is playing with my balls.
• A finger in my ass
• Constant eye contact with me.
• Finishing me
• Kissing me afterwards with my cum still in her mouth with one of us swallowing the load (this is a personal preference)