Hey Guys and Gals,
Sometimes this year or next year I am going to propose my significant other (F24) and I am kind of stuck because right now I am looking for house but I want to invite her to look at the houses with me but she lives like an hour and thirty minutes away from and need to ask the parents blessing before I invite her to come with house hunting. It will be our one year together in August 2022 so I don’t know if ask the parents blessing after the one year without having the ring on my hand (I am planning to get ring by the way I was feeling if I should propose to her on graduation day or somewhere near that time which will be like in May 2023). So I need some peoples’ opinion on this if its okay to ask for parents blessings even if I don’t have the ring on me.
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First, make sure she wants the parents’ blessing. While that may not bother some women, it most definitely will others. Second, talk to her about the ring before you choose one. Since she has to wear it, it needs to fit with her activities and preferences. Third, there’s really no order to do most things other than making sure what you want to do is also what she wants too.
You do you, but I’d kina prefer that you dated longer and closer together. We see so many problematic marriages in this sub where they married too quickly and also didn’t live close together. They find out they weren’t compatible at all in close proximity. I’ve already read a couple threads this morning like that.
> and need to ask the parents blessing before I invite her to come with house hunting.
If parental approval is needed, neither of you are ready to get married.