I’ve been split with my ex now for not even a month yet. We’ve known each other for roughly 7 years. We’ve been on again off again throughout the years but I’ve grown as a person and came to a realization that we just aren’t entirely compatible where it’s most important.
I’ve had this playful crush on a co-worker and legitimately just found out that he is also interested in me, but I’m estimating he’s around 10+ years older than me. Definitely more mature and he was very upfront about finding someone to get serious with. I explained to him my basic situation, and that I’m not entirely sure if that’s something I want to pursue at the moment, but I wouldn’t mind getting to know him better.
As long as boundaries are respected do y’all think this is a good idea? I don’t want to use someone to get over someone else, especially because he seems like a great guy.
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It seems like your break up was on your terms and your realization is to find someone more compatible so go for it.
Rebounds can happen in tour situation and it can be a fleeting thing but thats more likely in a situation where there was a sudden break and I have a feeling you have slowly been mograting towards this break.
So again, go explore, have fun and do whats best for you!