My friend is getting laid for the first time at 32. What is some advice that he would find helpful?

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  1. You’re 32 years old and have never had sex!?

    …dude, that’s fucking based.

  2. You don’t have any advice to give him yourself? You’re 32, tell him what you know

  3. steer clear of the harlot, tell him to go back to church and hold on to his virginity for dear life

  6. Tell “your friend” to relax. People have been figuring it out as long as we’ve been around. Take it slow, pay attention to how she reacts when you do things, read her body, and most importantly wrap it up. Don’t want any crotch goblins runnin round after your first roll in the hay.

  7. relax nerves are normal. foreplay Dont be selfish listen to her body. Once u blow u can still keep going till ur rdy to go again, oral, fingers etc. dont be afraid to ask the girl for tips.

  8. trim and clean your nails, toe and finger, your face stubble,(if he has a well-kept beard that okay, but either be beard or clean, don’t be brillo pad stubble).

    practice putting on condoms, so you know what fits so that it protects you but its not too tight how to take it out and put it on and such. Practice masturbation with a condom and lube so that he gets used to that feeling.

    Have tissues at the ready.

    For the sex. start slowly with just making out and feeling body parts with clothes on.
    then get rid of the clothing in stages if you have too. comminucate if you have a problem taking her bra off. https://moderntantra.blogspot.com/2015/10/a-guide-for-male-virgins.html?m=1&zx=1429ec88298ddb23
    there is some good advice at this link for male virgins.
    just take it slow. fingers ajd hands and his mouth and tongue and more important than the penis.
    stay out of your head and focus on her. your ejaculation is not the end of the sexual experience. stay relaxed have a good attitude and have fun

  9. Sex is weird. It’s awkward with weird sounds and smells and fluids. And it’s great. Don’t overthink just communicate with each other and have fun

  14. You’re like my friend. He’s 38 and a virgin. My entire accout is dedicated to him asking questions. He just nervous about typing.

  16. Know where the clit is and zero in on it. Also, don’t be selfish and be receptive to what she wants.

  17. Is there a way to bookmark this? Not for future reference… Or anything…

  18. If you/he has to ask online… you’re overthinking it. He will enjoy it mich more if he just lets things progress naturally. If he spends too much time thinking about it he might not be able to stay in the moment.

  19. Put his head in her crotch and tell him to start licking like he’s just tasted an ice cream cone for the first time lol

  20. Wait wait wait…You left out so many details? How do you know he’s going to have sex? Women don’t generally say “we’re going to have sex on June the 28th at 10pm” lol it just happens…so is it an escort?? Or what exactly is the situation? That information would help lol

  22. sometimes the first time doesn’t last long, so tell your friend to prepare for this

    mentally especially

    its completely normal

    hope this helps

  23. Just focus on your partner- but that’s really any time you’re having sex.

    Watch her face and body language. If you’re not sure just ask her what feels good and don’t be afraid to let her guide your hand or mouth to what she enjoys.

  26. Its ok to slow things down if you feel like you’re gonna cum earlier than either of you would like. It’s also okay to distract yourself momentarily to keep yourself from baking up a fresh batch of baby batter.

    One thing I like to do – count the blinds on the window. Some times a little bit of self redirection helps a lot. You probably won’t find what works for you on a first run though.

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