For context:
I am asking because I really want me and my friend to dye our hair together and I can’t invite him to mine because I invited him a couple of weeks ago to model for a school art project.
My friend is in the year above me at school and Thursday is his last day ever before he leaves the school for good but I really don’t want us to stop being friends and he isn’t the best at responding to messages.
It’s something he’s briefly mentioned before but never tried to initiate any plans, but I still don’t want to ask directly because I’ve been the one initiating most things for a while in the friendship.
Any tips on how I can hint to him without being obvious?
One thing I thought of was that I’ve shown a lot of interest in his cats before so I could ask how the cats are and see if I can get invited over using them as an excuse but I don’t know.
2 comments
Don’t try to manipulate your friends – it generally ends badly (even if it works do you really want to be a person who manipulates your friends?!)
If you want to hang out and dye hair, invite him over. It doesn’t matter if you hang out more at one place than the other. Also some people are crap at organising things and you may find yourself doing most initiating – it’s a little unfair but worth it if you’re getting positive things out of the friendship too
I don’t get it, why can’t you invite him to your place? Are you a minor and it’s your parents rule that you’re only allowed one visitor a month?